Staci Mannella

she/her

pre-licensed therapist & mental performance coach

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Currently on "tiny time,” which is less than part-time! I'm finishing up my PhD and only providing performance coaching for female athletes with disabilities. Please consider our other providers, who are also amazing!


Here's what I know about being an athlete with a disability.

The world wasn't built for you.

Sport spaces assume you can see, hear, move, process, or perform in ways that don't match your reality. Accommodations feel like favors instead of rights. And even when you make it to the starting line, people question whether you belong there.

I know this because I've lived it.

I'm a visually impaired alpine skier who competed at the 2014 Sochi and 2018 PyeongChang Paralympic Games. I stood on that start line knowing the world was watching—and wondering if I was good enough. I've navigated the mental load of high-level competition while also navigating a world that wasn't designed for me.

And here's the thing nobody talks about: success isn't just about physical training. It's about recognizing, managing, and learning from the mental and emotional weight you carry. The stressors. The expectations. The stories you tell yourself about who you are and what you're capable of.

That's the work we'll do together.

Performance stats won't be the only measure of success here.

You are not your results.

You're a person with multiple identities, roles, perspectives, and experiences. You're an athlete, yes—but you're also so much more than that.

In our work together, I want to see and know all those layers. Not just who you are in competition, but who you are when no one's watching. Who you are when you're struggling. Who you are when you're figuring out what comes next.

We'll talk about the stories you tell yourself—where they come from, which ones are true, and which ones need to be rewritten.

Because that's where real growth happens.

What working with me actually looks like.

I'll bring humor, curiosity, and compassion. I'll challenge you when you're ready for it. Some days that means reminding you of your greatness when you can't see it yourself. Other days it means digging into the hard stuff you didn't even realize you were avoiding.

Either way, I'm in it with you.

Here's what we'll focus on:

  • Exploring how your identities show up in sport and life: Your disability. Your gender. Your sexuality. Your race. Your age. These aren't separate from your athletic experience—they shape it. We'll talk about how those identities influence the way you train, compete, and move through the world.

  • Recognizing relational patterns: The way you relate to coaches, teammates, guides, and support staff matters. We'll explore those dynamics—what's working, what's not, and how those patterns show up off the field too.

  • Developing tools to respond instead of react: You'll learn to meet challenges with openness and perspective instead of shutting down or spiraling. This isn't about suppressing emotions—it's about building capacity to sit with them.

  • Tackling perfectionism, mental blocks, and identity beyond results: You don't have to be perfect to be worthy. You don't have to achieve to matter. We'll work on that—together.

My approach: flexible, collaborative, and grounded in who you are.

I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Feminist Therapy, and Emotion Focused Therapy. Translation: we're going to explore the different parts of you, honor your emotions, and build psychological flexibility.

My approach is tailored to you—where you are right now, what you need, and what feels right. Some days we'll go deep. Other days we'll keep it lighter. Both are okay.

As a pre-licensed intern supervised by Dr. Ayala, I offer services at a reduced rate while maintaining the same high-quality, evidence-based support.

Meet Staci!

I'm currently pursuing my PhD and completing my internship, which means I'm on "tiny time"—part-time hours with very limited availability. That said, our other providers are phenomenal. Book a consult with one of them below!